How to Deal With Failures?
Spiritual experience equally to human experience requires an open heart. The heart is closed off by fears. The ability to be truly committed indicates an open heart. Commitment itself if not the value, it is that it indicates the heart is open, and the open heart is the only thing of value. Now we are faced with wanting to be able to commit to a relationship, using the most obvious example but this applies equally to your business if your goal is to make a success out of anything else, but you are not able to feel that commitment.
This is where many people have taken advantage to write books and teach workshops about helping you overcome your fear of commitment or how to tell if a person is unable to commit. What if you are able to commit but simply have not met the right person or found the right project to be able to bring out that whole hearted commitment.
I say this because you may be fine indeed, not need any help, but still not feel a devotion to anyone or goal. Sadly there are many false teachings out there who take advantage and mess people up more than they really are.There is a book written about how to tell if a man is scared of commitment. It listed 10 things a man will do that should be red flags to the woman.
It shocked me to hear that these things are all wonderful qualities that every woman wants."He calls often to say how much he likes you." "He opens the car door and is a perfect gentleman." These are a couple of points that are in the same line as the entire list. All wonderful qualities, however they are also the tools of a good manipulator who just wants an easy fling.